A "The Fiance" quandary.

Mom is endlessly irritated that in all this time, I have yet to either post a picture of The Fiance or name him.

I've tried to maintain a sound argument - that I would like to keep some sense of anonymity, that I'll unveil him later, once we're married, that he really doesn't exist, and I totally made this entire blog up.

But none of the excuses hold up. Because, I mean really, you can't make up butterfly phobias and cats who climb walls.

What do you guys think? Do you need a name? A picture? Or will that ruin the image you already have in your head of this man who will marry a woman who puts toothpaste on her face and who spends more time blogging than she does breathing?

Please advise.